I like reading “A Promised Land” by former US President Obama. He mentions his challenges and obstacles during his presidency and highlights the need for unity and collaboration in finding constructive solutions for positive change. The book embodies a mentality of resilience, showcasing how complaining can be counterproductive in achieving one’s goals. Having a habit of complaining may foster a negative mindset in dealing with difficult situations. Ironically, the mountaintop is for a good view, but only the dark valley nurtures delighting fruits. Similarly, opportunities are usually found in tough times. In the Bible, God considers complaining a sin because it demonstrates an attitude of ungratefulness. “The people began complaining about their hardship, and the Lord heard everything they said. Then the Lord’s anger blazed against them, and he sent a fire to rage among them and destroyed some of the people on the outskirts of the camp. －Numbers 11:1.” Pragmatically, excessive complaining fosters a sense of victimhood and powerlessness, preventing individuals from taking responsibility for their actions and finding proactive solutions. Ultimately, a habit of complaint limits personal growth and perpetuates dissatisfaction. Chronic complainers often create a negative atmosphere, affecting the people around them. The constant negativity can strain relationships, pushing away friends, family, and colleagues. Obama advocates in his book for personal responsibility, perseverance, and taking action to address challenges. How about us?