It is a common human tendency to focus on the faults and shortcomings of others while overlooking our own. May it be attributed to our sinful nature, including ego protection, insecurity, or the desire to feel superior? Criticizing others may allow us to deflect attention away from our flaws and insecurities, making us feel better about ourselves. Pointing out faults in others may also give us a sense of power and control, temporarily boosting our self-esteem. It is often easier to spot the faults in others because we are more emotionally detached from them, allowing us to be more objective – or so we believe. Yet, it is essential to recognize that constantly criticizing others while overlooking our own faults is counterproductive and can lead to strained relationships and stagnation in personal growth. “Don’t speak evil against each other, dear brothers and sisters. If you criticize and judge each other, then you are criticizing and judging God’s law. But your job is to obey the law, not to judge whether it applies to you.－James 4:11” Self-reflection and accepting imperfections are crucial steps toward personal development and fostering healthier connections with those around us. Complaining about others usually leads us to say things about them we may later regret. It often leads to gossip and slander. By acknowledging our faults and working on them, we can pave the way for more meaningful self-improvement and genuine connections with others.