According to the developmental psychology study, the best parenting style values both reasoning and the exercise of authority. They share with their kids the rationale behind discipline; they praise their kids’ constructive behavior affectionately but also provide prompt correction tenderly for their misbehavior; they recognize their special rights as parents but also care for their kids’ interests; they affirm their kids’ existing qualities but also set standards for the development of their future conduct. The magic words could summarize the essence of parenting: “Firm but Gentle” (立場堅定,態度溫柔). “Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. Colossians 3:21” In the pandemic, more parent-child conflicts have been reported. Let’s exercise together with the magic words: “Firm but Gentle.”